Thursday, November 3, 2011

How Do You Reveal A Foot Fetish to Your Girlfriend?

If you simply come out and make the announcement you will very likely be misunderstood. Some people don't realize exactly what a fetish is and many will fear what they cannot understand. If you present it in a straightforward manner she will probably think you are admitting to being a pervert.

My own experience proves what I'm saying. After hiding my foot fetish most of my life I tried to finally come to terms with it. Seeing so much fetish content on the internet made me believe it was more main stream. So I did finally try to just come out of the shoe closet and tell a girlfriend that I was attracted to her feet.
Her immediate response was: "That's creepy."
This experience did nothing to boost my own perception that I was in fact a weirdo.

The preferred way to reveal your foot cravings is by slow introduction. Make reference to her feet but do not put excess focus on or straightforwardly ask for her feet. Create casual contact. While relaxing on the sofa after work, remove her shoes and give her a foot massage. Most women will not turn that down, though there are a few out there who are so grossed out by feet that they will never let you touch theirs; especially after a long day of having them trapped inside shoes. If your girl has a serious aversion to having her feet touched, then this is something you really must discover in the early part of the relationship. Simply put, the two of you are not compatible if you are so disparately divergent on this important issue.

If you are as attracted to sexy female feet as I am, then you should also introduce foot play into your love making routine. Do not dive in directly for the feet, but be sure to touch her feet gently while performing other acts. This will make the connection in her mind that one pleasurable act is related to another. Rest her feet on your crotch, chest, neck and shoulders as you experiment with different positions.  When going down on her bring her feet close to the arena and intermingle sole kisses and toe sucking. While engaged in the main event, it is acceptable to pull her toes into your mouth and deliver her this additional form of physical attention. She will certainly appreciate it and you will have crossed an important barrier that will now allow your foot fetish to play a part in your love making.

Eventually, and for some women it may take more time than others, she will associate your attention to her feet as a come on. Foreplay may occur in public areas, say underneath the table in a restaurant where she will rest her bare foot on your knee or crotch. She will eventually learn that this action entices you and inspires you to action which has a positive result for her. Before you know it, when the two of you are relaxing on the sofa after work it will be her who initiates foreplay by prodding your crotch with her bare sole or using her toes as an attention getter as she rubs them across your ear, neck or cheek.

The best advice I can offer is to take it slow and let it take you all the way to your most fantastic foot fetish fantasies.

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Thursday, October 6, 2011

One Foot is Not Like the Other

Well, I'm not talking about a completely mismatched pair of feet although my title sounds a bit odd. Maybe I should specify that what I actually mean is that one pair of feet can be quite different from another separate pair of female feet.

I like attractive female feet, but that does not, sadly, mean I am attracted to all female feet. There are a great variety in sizes and shapes and over the years I have learned that the ones I like are not always exactly the same. I believe each pair of female feet have to be considered on their own individuality and proportion. They must be clean and well cared for of course, but they can be judged for their own personality.

Amazingly, a pretty woman does not necessarily indicate she will have nice feet. It is a great treat when you do find that perfect package, but it is a huge disappointment when you work your way into a beautiful woman's shoes only to find that she was clearly put together by Doctor Frankenstein!

My heart drops when I find an attractive woman who has unattractive or worse: uncared for feet. I know it may be considered somewhat superficial, but I have a foot fetish and I really need to have clean, sexy feet to play with.

On the other hand, I often encounter plain or even homely or somewhat overweight women that actually possess admirably gorgeous feet and toes.

The moral is that the foot cannot be properly pre-judged by the package it is attached to. The lesson is to encourage your dates to wear open-toed shoes, sandals or something that will provide you a peek at the goods before you move in for closer inspection. You also have the option of planning a date which includes an activity that will prompt her to remove her shoes without you asking. Maybe walking on the beach or wading through puddles on the sidewalk; you can slip your own shoes off to feel the grass in the park or get some sun without having a shoe or sock line; try sitting on a dock or the edge of a fountain and hopefully she'll follow your lead.

If these opportunities elude you or if all else fails, you can always fall back on the surefire way to get her to unveil her feet and toesies: Take her to a shoe store!

I warn you to proceed with caution should this last option be attempted. Be aware that this tactic can have extreme results that will possibly ruin the rest of your date.

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Foot Preference: Clean or Dirty?

I prefer clean, well cared for female feet. I am really into skin and like to have a clear view and taste without dirt or debris. If a woman has been wearing shoes for a while and the smell has grown quite strong, then that is fine. It is natural and quite enticing. For me, removing a woman's footwear is a great treat...like opening a present...and a perfect way for me to begin exploring and adoring her feet and toes. If she has been barefoot or maybe wearing open toed shoes or sandals and accumulated dust or dirt from walking around, then the act of bathing her feet and toes is another exciting precursor to the erotic events that will follow. Being somewhat dirty will not exclude a woman's feet from my attention, but rather it will extend the foreplay.

Friday, July 15, 2011

What Type of Feet Do Men Like?

Female feet come in a variety of shapes and sizes. The style of feet and toes I would have described as "my type" a few years ago is no longer sufficient. I've been attracted to the female foot for as long as I can remember. Though I attempted to ignore it or hide the fetish in my youth, I have over the years become more comfortable with it. Learning that I'm not alone helped a whole lot. This acceptance allowed me to become more comfortable and begin experimenting. I have since learned that a wide variety of feet styles are now within my purview of attraction. Experimentation and experience have taught me that there is a huge range of acceptable variety in the foot fetish community.

Admittedly, I am not attracted to all women's feet. But from what I've learned there are very many men out there harboring a foot fetish and if you fan your toes to the crowd, someone will step forward to taste them!